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Brenda Havens posted a condolence
Sunday, March 17, 2019
As I think about all my brothers-in-law, I realize that Joe Dills was the warmest, most loving and approachable of all that I've had. So, I'm not exaggerating when I say that he was the best brother-in-law EVER.
I felt like I knew him from all Ruth's phone descriptions--caring person, social worker by profession, man of faith, a friend who, Ruth felt, listened to her and valued her. I was not disappointed when I met him. Dignified, warm, pleasantly conversational, interesting stories to tell, and an interest in those around him--all the traits were there. I was so very glad that he and Ruth had found each other.
Early in their life together, Ruth and Joe bought a house and invited Ruth's brother to live in their garage apartment. Our beloved William had advanced lung disease and HIV, was on disability and needed support. In addition to all that, William suffered from bipolar disorder, and that condition sometimes led to his pushing annoyance buttons on people close to him. Joe, hesitant at first, intentionally and willingly got to know William, and came to love and treasure him. William so needed a solid friend close by, to love him unconditionally, and to encourage him during his last years.The two unlikely companions developed a mutually trusting and loving relationship, which I believe enriched both their lives. Trust me, though-this required plenty of patience on Joe's part, and he met the requirements.
He wrote me a few personal letters, chatting about his current life, letting me know how retirement was going, connecting with me on issues of involvement in church activities, as well as matters of faith in Christ. I treasured those letters, even if I was not as disciplined in responding as he was in writing. I considered him a friend--a separate category from bro-in-law--someone I identified with and cared about.
It warmed my heart over the years to see the role that Joe filled in the life of Ruth with her growing and grown children. I sensed they needed him. And he was there. And then--the grandkids! Who brought whom the most joy could be debated. He cherished their growing-up years like any grandparent would, and I know he added a grampy's extra measure of love to their lives.
He will be missed by that family, and I will miss knowing that I can talk to, write to, or visit him in days to come.
Rest and rejoice with those angels, dear Joe.
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Eunice Bennett posted a condolence
Thursday, March 7, 2019
I only worked with Joe on occasion. He had a quiet presence and a subtle sense of humor. He showed compassion for his patients and their families. He was always willing to listen to the concerns of other staff members. He was a great addition to the Hospice team.
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Thursday, March 7, 2019
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Denis Ganey posted a condolence
Monday, January 28, 2019
Peace and Love to Ruth and Family.
Thinking about Joe brings a warm calming smile.
I well remember the morning frenzy of the Shelton office. Nurses, therapists, Aides scurrying about for supplies; phoning to verify scheduling and orders; chatting with managers and “mother” to coordinate care plans….
There, in the midst of it all, would be Joe sipping his morning cola calmly tending to paper work and calls. If a frenzied colleague approached Joe seeking wise counsel on a patient or with a request, one could watch as he quietly listened, slowing them down and helped them unpack their concerns.
This was far more effective and healthier than the morning cup of “joe” many others use to start their days.
As part of my orientation, I was privileged to watch Joe work with the people we served. He would bring his peaceful presence into their often agitated worlds providing a listening ear, problem solving skills and a dose of humor. He respected people no matter their circumstances or challenges. We shared a profound disappointment with institutional failures to create a culture of supporting people or improving the care of those we served.
I am reminded of this thought adapted from Middlemarch: His full nature spent itself in deeds which left no great name on the earth. But the effect of his being on those around him was incalculable. For the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts and on all those Joes who live faithfully their hidden lives…
Thankfully, his spirit remains with me as I move through my days.
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